Weekly SPARK - Experiment 36
Relationship is an ongoing act of nonlinear creation.
SPARK EXPERIMENT
Specific Practical Application of Radical Knowledge
Sunday, 12 January 2025
SPARK- Experiment 36:
Relationship is an ongoing act of nonlinear creation.
SPARK 036 (Matrix Code: SPARK036.00 for StartOver.xyz game.)
NOTES: The couple is newly married. On the first night the man comes home from work and says, “Hello Honey,” and gives her a big kiss. He says, “I love you!” She says, “I love you too! This is so wonderful!” On the second night the man comes home from work and says, “Hello Honey,” and gives her a big kiss. He says, “I love you!” She says, “Yes. I know. I love you too.” On the third night the man comes home from work and says, “Hello Honey,” and gives her a big kiss. He says, “I love you!” She says, “Fine. What else do you have?”
If the relationship is predictable it is dead. If energy exchanges and communications are linear the relationship lacks vitality. A relationship can only feed you if the relationship is alive. This is true for relationships with your boss, with your client, with your colleagues, with your children, with your neighbors, or with your parents, not only with your mate. If the relationship is not fluid, expanding, becoming deeper, changing, evolving, then it is not living.
To participate in an alive relationship you must also be alive. Relationship is not something you consume like a candy bar. Relationship is an ongoing act of nonlinear creation. Relationship is not about solving the problem of being lonely or being insecure. Relationship is about creating the possibility that the archetypal masculine and feminine principles can do their work in the world.
Possibility Managers do not go into relationships in order to get something. As a Possibility Manager you start from the declaration, “I already have everything that I need.” You go into relationship as a creator in order to give. You live your destiny by serving your relationships. Every relationship you have is a laboratory where you can do the experiments of creating possibility, having integrity, being vulnerable, being intimate, increasing your tolerance for joy, healing, Box expansion and so on.
Nonlinear creation means that even you do not necessarily know what is going to happen next. Creation only happens in a minimized NOW. If you are completely present with and accept what is happening in your relationship in this moment, then in the next moment anything is possible.
EXPERIMENT:
SPARK036.01 Start being nonlinear in your relationships. Come in early to work to have coffee with your boss or colleagues. Start a Possibility Team with them. Call up your mate in the middle of the day, not to get something from them, not for no reason. Call them up because you cannot resist appreciating some aspect of who they are. Call them up to share what amazed you this morning. Call them up to investigate how reality works, to make interesting plans for the evening together, to reveal who you are in the liquid state, to undermine mediocrity, to confirm their uniqueness, to speak to another part of them that you almost never speak to. Move, produce, shift identity, call forth, invite, demand, change your timing, and be nonlinear.
When two people are in relationship there is one person’s Box, there is the other person’s Box, and there is a third thing called the relationship. The relationship is not between the Boxes. The relationship is between the beings. Place your attention on feeding your relationship. If you take care to feed your relationship in extraordinary and nonlinear ways, you may find that you are fed likewise.
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